Bridging the Gap to Resolution

Helping separating and divorcing families reach fair and lasting agreements without the cost, stress and uncertainty of the courts.

Divorce & Separation Mediation

Mediation provides a respectful, private path for couples ending a relationship. Together, we work through important decisions — from property division to parenting plans — in a way that reduces conflict, protects dignity, and helps both parties move forward with clarity.

Child Custody
Negotiations

We help parents create practical parenting plans and custody agreements that prioritize children’s needs. Through a guided, neutral process, we encourage collaboration, reduce conflict, and build sustainable arrangements that support a stable and positive home life for everyone involved.

Pre & Post Nuptial Agreements

Our mediation process helps couples create clear and thoughtful prenuptial or postnuptial agreements. By fostering open dialogue, we ensure both partners’ voices are heard, financial matters are handled with fairness, and trust is strengthened through mutual understanding.

You don’t have to navigate conflict alone.

Safian Mediation offers a calm, neutral space to be heard and to find practical solutions—faster and more economical than litigation. Send us a note and we’ll reach out to discuss next steps.

Testimonials

“Jennifer Safian is a remarkable mediator. She is able to combine realism and compassion and she brings both to the mediation table. Her intelligent and thoughtful approach empowers parties to be the very best they can be when crafting a divorce agreement, focusing on the best interests of all involved including the children.”

-Jenny Besch, Director, Mediation Center Serving Westchester & Rockland Counties

“Jennifer’s calm and resilient manner allowed us to trust her support and ourselves, at a time when it felt like everything was falling apart. After each session, I felt more confident about maintaining communication and cooperation with my spouse, and moving forward in my own life. I am so grateful for Jennifer’s help.”

– Alison F.

“I wish I had known that mediation even existed before we went and spent all that time and money on legal fees and got nowhere. Thank you for helping us work things out in such a short time.”

– B.

“Thank you so much for your help through our separation. As difficult as it is, you have been such a calm and reassuring force.” 

– A.F.

“Jennifer was extremely supportive and skillful during a very difficult process. From the start, she listened carefully to our struggles and worked diligently and carefully to help us separate in a way that minimized the emotional and financial damage and maintained the best circumstances for our child.”

– Alison F.

Meet The Team

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Jennifer Safian
Mediator

Jennifer Safian has been in private practice as a Family and Divorce Mediator since 2003. Jennifer is dedicated to helping families going through personal crisis and divorce. Jennifer says in her own words: “It is my privilege to do the job that I do, and bring some calm and reassurance to the couples going through this traumatic time in their lives.”

Learn More About Jennifer Here

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Rachel Fishman Green
Esquire

Rachel is a very experienced family attorney who also began her practice as a divorce and family mediator in 1995. Rachel will act as a neutral and draft all legal agreements as well as file all the necessary divorce documents in the courts once the mediation process is completed.

Rachel Moheban

Rachel Moheban-Wachtel
LCSW

For over two decades, Rachel has dedicated herself to helping couples overcome obstacles to achieve fulfilling relationships. With certifications in various therapeutic modalities, including EFT and Gottman Method, Rachel creates a non-judgmental space for healing. Her interactive approach and commitment to guiding clients make her a trusted resource.

Philosophy

At Safian Mediation, we believe conflict can be resolved through respectful dialogue and mutual understanding. Our role is to provide a neutral, supportive space where each voice is heard and every concern is addressed. By focusing on collaboration instead of confrontation, we help people reach agreements that are both fair and lasting.

Why Us?

Choosing the right mediator can make all the difference. With years of experience, a compassionate approach, and a commitment to fairness, Safian Mediation guides you through even the most challenging situations. We combine proven mediation techniques with genuine care to help you move forward with clarity and confidence.

"Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.”

— Viktor E. Frankl