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why must our parenting schedule have so many details?

By Jennifer Safian / June 19, 2024

{2 minutes to read}  A separating or divorcing family needs to create a parenting plan to determine how they will share time with their children on weekdays, weekends, holidays, and vacations. It takes some effort to draw up these plans so that each parent can have meaningful time with them and ensure that transitions between…

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what to do to prepare for the mediation process

By Jennifer Safian / April 20, 2022

  Deciding to divorce is a huge decision fraught with emotions. Once the decision is made, however, how do you proceed? If you have wisely decided to pursue divorce mediation, there are things you can do to prepare. This video blog will explain some of the things you can do prior to your first mediation…

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discussing wills within the divorce process

By Jennifer Safian / March 9, 2022

{4 minutes to read}  It is customary for couples going through a divorce to waive rights to each other’s estates. Unless they have children together, they will move forward with their lives and will no longer be making estate decisions as a couple. Post-divorce, those decisions will be made by each party separately.  In mediation,…

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when going through divorce — anger may be justified, but is not productive

By Jennifer Safian / January 7, 2022

“The secret of change is to focus all of your energy, not on fighting the old, but on building the new.”   — Socrates     {3 minutes to read}  This is actually a quote from a character named Socrates in Way of the Peaceful Warrior: A Book that Changes Lives, by Dan Millman. As I read this…

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Stressed african american couple looking frustrated, having no money to pay off their debts, managing family budget together, sitting home at kitchen table with lots of papers, laptop and calculator

discussing divorce? let’s sit on the same side of the kitchen table

By Jennifer Safian / August 26, 2021

{3 minutes to read} Divorcing couples who come to mediation always tell me from the outset that they are purposely choosing this process because they do not wish to engage in a litigious battle. They come with the best intentions to work out issues such as custody, parenting schedules, and division of their assets as…

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the postnuptial agreement

By Jennifer Safian / September 27, 2020

{3 minutes to read}  Most of us have heard of a Prenuptial Agreement (“prenup”), which some couples choose to sign before they get married. Prenups usually dictate how a couple will handle financial matters in case of divorce, or in case of the death of one spouse, and also include several other points agreed to…

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I Rushed Into a Divorce Agreement and Now I Regret It!

By Jennifer Safian / June 27, 2018

“Nothing good ever comes out of hurry and frustration, only misery.”                                                                                  ― Auliq Ice {2:42 minutes to read}  There are times when spouses make decisions regarding their assets, which they later regret for a variety of reasons: They want the process over and done with. They are afraid of being bullied and think that being…

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What Happens to Assets Accumulated After Separation? by Jennifer Safian

What Happens to Assets Accumulated After Separation?

By Jennifer Safian / May 24, 2017

{2:42 minutes to read} Bob and Jean were married for twelve years, but had been living separately, with no formal separation agreement, for the last 5 years. They came to mediation to work out the terms of their divorce. The big question that came up for them was, “What happens to the money accumulated since…

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