Children and Divorce

Couple fighting in front of child

consequences of divorce: what is wrong with this picture?

By Jennifer Safian / October 22, 2019

{3 minutes to read}  Over the years, I have encountered in my practice a few situations where parents were so caught up in their own divorce drama, that they forgot about the impact of their actions on their children. Here are some of those real-life cases: 1. A divorced couple agrees to live separately within the…

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Multi-Generational Step-Parenting Can Work with a Little Forethought by Jennifer Safian

Multi-Generational Step-Parenting Can Work with a Little Forethought

By Jennifer Safian / August 22, 2017

{3:42 minutes to read} Bringing a step-relative into the family structure can be challenging for everyone, or very successful, as the following story illustrates. Recently, I was visiting a family of 7; a couple with 4 children, from ages 7 to 11, and a new puppy. One grandmother was there with her significant other—we will…

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a painful plea from a child of divorce

By Jennifer Safian / August 23, 2016

{4:24 minutes to read} Many couples going through divorce have to make huge efforts to protect their children from their conflict. Unfortunately, once in awhile, the stress is so high that their emotions get the better part of them, and the child gets pulled into their drama. I worked with a family who unfortunately continued…

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my EX, your EX, their EX – what EX-actly does that mean?

By Jennifer Safian / March 3, 2015

{1:53 minutes to read} What’s in this two-letter word? A lot! Someone you loved Someone with whom you may have had children Someone with whom you shared many things, good and bad And now someone from whom you are probably separated or divorced. WIKIPEDIA says: In social relationships, an ex (plural is exes) is someone…

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being a parent post divorce: when parents don’t agree

By Jennifer Safian / September 25, 2013

In “being a parent post-divorce”, we discussed all the different points that can help divorced parents work together in co-parenting their children. But what happens when parents don’t agree and are not able to make joint decisions? When I work with couples going through divorce, they often ask, “What happens if we disagree with each…

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