Divorcing Couples

what happens if we get stuck and cannot reach an agreement?

By Jennifer Safian / February 17, 2022

{3 minutes to read}  When separating/divorcing couples or family members reach out to me for a consultation about the mediation process, they often ask “what happens if we get stuck?” It is not unusual for people to become deadlocked, especially if they have strong views about a particular issue:  One parent wants Joanie to have…

discussing divorce? let’s sit on the same side of the kitchen table

By Jennifer Safian / August 26, 2021

{3 minutes to read} Divorcing couples who come to mediation always tell me from the outset that they are purposely choosing this process because they do not wish to engage in a litigious battle. They come with the best intentions to work out issues such as custody, parenting schedules, and division of their assets as…

wills, trusts & estates for divorcing couples

By Jennifer Safian / June 30, 2021

{3 minutes to read}  Divorcing couples rarely think to address the subject of Wills and estates. In the divorce mediation process, these issues can be addressed and worked through before the parties meet with their trusts and estates attorneys. If they wish, the attorney may be present for this conversation in the mediation session. Attorney…

the devil is in the details

By Jennifer Safian / May 11, 2021

{3 minutes to read}  Some divorcing couples do not want to spend time and energy discussing details during the mediation process. In the midst of emotional trauma, they just want it over and done with. They do not want to discuss what seems like trivial details, which would just delay putting an end to their…